Squirting? She soaks everything!

She soaks everything…you know who I’m talking about, the squirter. Some people love them, some people hate them. I don’t have a preference….I just would rather not be in the line of fire when it happens.  What is about this expulsion of fluid that turns on so many swingers?  I can remember playing with a couple one night, and while the female was riding me….she soaked me…..from my neck too my socks.  But that left me curious…. what’s the fluid?

Maybe this will answer some of your questions.  Female ejaculation (AKA:  Squirting) ejaculation of clear fluids by females from the par urethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm.  But where does this fluid come from and why?  And what is this fluid?

Most “experts” claim that the fluid is indeed not urine and the nature of the fluid has been narrowed down to being stress incontinence or vaginal lubrication.  But here is where the “Experts” lose me. They doubt that a woman can squirt as part of sexual arousal. HUH??  Any fluid produced at orgasm should be classified as squirting!

In questionnaire surveys, 35–50% of women report that they have at some time experienced the gushing of fluid during orgasm. Other studies find anywhere from 10–69%, depending on the definitions and methods used.  Reports on the volume of fluid expelled vary considerably from amounts that would be imperceptible to a woman, to mean values of 1–5 ml, although volumes as high as one pint (473 ml) have been reported.

How do you feel about squirters in the swinger lifestyle?  We asked a few readers and here are some of the responses.

“Dude, I love to see a lady shoot the stream.  I have never been able to make my wife squirt, so it’s kind of a fascination with me.”

“The dick has to be exceptional good for me to squirt. I just can’t do it with anybody, It just happens”

“After about five minutes of constant pounding, I usually start to squirt.”

“I get off making woman squirt. There is not a woman alive that I can’t make get the bed wet”

“I can’t stand it!  You can’t convince me that it’s not urine.”

“I’m able to control it now; I can squirt whenever I’m aroused, it’s like second nature now.”

“I was performing oral sex on a female….and she squirted in my face. She didn’t even tell me it was coming. I can’t stand it now”

Squirters have their own place in the swinger lifestyle.  Some people love it...some people can’t stand it.  My advice to you is; if you or your wife is a squirter. Be mindful of the people you play with!

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                                         Black Swingers

Lately, I have noticed a change in the dynamics of the swinger lifestyle. There is just a little more color mixed in…..particularly black. There has always been a fair share of

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in the lifestyle, but there has never been enough.  Who knows the reason why it has taken black couples so long to get involved the lifestyle? Is it because of insecurity, jealousy or just simply not knowing?
If you browse swinger dating sites now, you will see more active profiles from black swinger couples, in the past you would only see a few profiles from black couples, mostly in cities like Dallas or Atlanta.

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In the past, the majority of chocolate profiles on swinger dating sites were that of single black males. Single black females have always been sought after in the lifestyle, and surprisingly they outnumbered black couples.

                                                                            Black swinger groups

Recently there has been a surge of black swingers joining the lifestyle. Thanks to groups like the Chocolate Swirl of Dallas, DC Mingle of D.C, Sweet Sinsations of the Gulf Coast, The S Planet from Atlanta and Celebrity Swingers of Houston, The Black Swingers Club Website, AE Mingle, Eyes Wide Shutt and Trendsetter Promotions of Houston, black swinger couples are joining the lifestyle at an unprecedented pace.

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Why is there such an interest about the lifestyle? Why is there an influx of black swingers now?  One fellow party promoter said, “I think music has a lot to do with it. All they talk about is threesomes!  Having a Ménage à Trois is pretty much mainstream now!  Not to mention straight women are going to strip clubs with their partners and after a few trips to the strip club it kind of evolves from there”.

I recently spoke with a black swinger couple just toes down in the lifestyle, and here is what they had to say about their newfound interest in the lifestyle “We always were down with freaky stuff in college. We would always get naked with friends in the hot tub, or everybody would have sex with their partner in one room. After we got married we talked about having a threesome with another female, and it happened…..A few times actually.  We started doing a little research online, and we found out what the lifestyle was really all about. We always thought it was men on men and women on women, some crazy stuff.  After we joined a few swinger dating sites, tried a  few swinger parties, then we found out what the lifestyle was really all about…. Now we love it”

The faces of the swinger lifestyle have changed.  It’s no longer just predominantly older white couples; it’s mixed with young educated open minded people of all races. This is truly what the lifestyle needs to continue our movement!

Also noteworthy organizations not mentioned in this article are  Enticing  SECS Unlimited,Squirt Entertainment, The Pillow Talk  crew from Dallas and Club Aphrodite of New Orleans and many more not listed.

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The sun was slowly setting, the temperature had dropped slightly.  Everybody had gone home including the cleaners.  The office was deserted, almost!

The door was shut but not locked; the blinds up and the window open.  Music was playing quietly from the PC.

You’re pummeling me from behind, banging the shit out of my pussy.  I’m screaming filthy directives at you at full tilt, the words, the moans, and the grunts are the ultimate aphrodisiac for you; for both of us.

"Shit, fuck; bang me harder... Oh yeah bang me, fuck me harder!  Make me your fucking whore."

You’re standing behind me, your cock thrusting away at my juicy, wet hole. You feel that strange sensation that a man can only get from fucking a tight pussy; total comfort and electric excitement wrapped up in a single erotic moment. I’m deliciously naked before you; my hand is underneath me, playing with my clit, strumming away at my sodden pussy.  My fingers are a blur, as I jack myself off.  The quest for my orgasm will not be difficult.

My breaths come in ragged gasps, as I launch into my first orgasm of the evening.  Until now you haven’t felt in danger of cumming yourself.  I look and feel so radiant beneath you, impaled on your cock. You drive into me again and again, pounding my cunt to a juicy froth. My pussy is so slick and slippery. It is a warm vice that snugly holds your cock. The slapping of skin on skin is deeply erotic. It pushes you further, driving harder into my steamy depths.

"Uh, uh, unh. Oh god! UNH!!!" I gasp.

You reach down and grab the rounded cheeks of my arse.  You dig your fingers into my skin, mauling and groping my lean flesh with unbridled desire. My orgasm takes control; my moan is low and lewd. My hips buck against you, rotating in a distorted spherical pattern.

That is all the motivation you need. My orgasm pushes you to yours. You run your hand up my supple back.  A thin sheen of sweat coats my skin. Reaching the top of my neck, you slide your fingers up through my hair.  You close them, balling my hair in your fist, and pull tight.  Flexing your arm, you pull me up and bring me to you.  Groaning, my face turns to yours. We are standing now, my hands still bracing my sweat-covered body against your desk. Your cock drives into me from an upward angle. We are now engaged – full throttle – in a furious, standing fuck.

"Oh God! Oh fuck, fuck, fuck, oh shit, oh fuck" we simultaneously moan.

With every thrust of your engorged cock, I gasp and rise up on my toes. You can't think; all rational or intellectual thought flees your brain.  There is only me, the sexy woman and my even sexier cunt that you’re fucking.  No more! Streams of cum spew from your dick, flooding my pussy. The tension drains from your body, as you grind your cock into me with a final shaky thrust.

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Jealousy in the swinger lifestyle-What to do?

One of the most common questions we get asked by new  swinger couples is how do we avoid jealousy when we see each other having sex with someone else. The idea of the swinger lifestyle intrigues many couples, but they don’t know how they will cope when seeing their partner banging someone else at a swinger club or swinger party.  The temptation to experiment is there, but the doubt is there as well.

I have  seen the effects of jealousy in the swinger lifestyle on many occasions. Let me tell you that it does not discriminate…you can be a seasoned veteran or a newbie swinger couple, we’ve seen it all.  But where does jealousy come from in the swinger lifestyle, where does that moment of doubt turns into a moment of real jealousy?

By definition jealousy is:  an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values. Jealousy often consists of a combination of presenting emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust.

What are the causes to this strong  emotion:

1. Alcohol:  This is just my personal assessment . I have seen club owners have their moments of jealousy. And I know for a fact that they are completely secure in their relationship.

2. Stress:

3. Insecurity:

4. Envy

Society tells us that we should have monogamous relationship with our lover......and most of us were raised that way. So quite naturally jealousy will arise in the beginning of your swinging journey.   Trust, openness and communication are the keys to overcoming jealousy in the swinger lifestyle.

Trust in the swinger lifestyle is developed by learning your partner better,knowing their sexual desires and fantasies. Most couples don't talk about this, simply because the fear of knowing.  Becky and Derrick don't sit at home talking about how Becky wants a gangbang.......or how Derrick wants a threesome with a female.  Only the swinger lifestyle can bring this out.

A lot of our friends have told us that the swinger lifestyle saved their relationship.  "It strengthened our relationship and took us to a level of trust that we could never think of" said one of our friends.  It can enhance your love making at home, and it can make the unbreakable bond that so many monogamous seek to have.

I always tell newbies that there is a difference in fucking and making love. Once you get past that.....you'll be ok. If you can't, then you probably should reconsider your thoughts about engaging in the Swinger lifestyle.

Jealousy will arise from time to time....I admit that there are times when we get the jealousy bug. It's mostly when we're at a club or event, and  one of us has more suitable playmates to choose from than the other..... And we pick at each other about that. How you handle your jealousy will determine how you grow in the swinger lifestyle. If you feel the slightest hint of jealousy, talk it over with your partner. And don't feel ashamed about being jealous, there is a lot more jealousy in the swinger lifestyle than people want to admit.

This is our first part on jealousy in the swinger lifestyle

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Well, I can check one more thing off my bucket list!

I went shopping today. Yay!
For lingerie. Yay!
And I bought a lot of new stuff. Yay!

This store, which shall remain nameless, is really far from my house. So when I make an effort to patronize it, it is because I have a goal in mind. Today’s goal: No window shopping; get new sexy stuff.

But then something unexpected happened. My attendant got a little pushy so my husband stepped in to help me with the retrieving and deciding of what to try on and what would finally be bought. This was wonderful because he stayed with me in the fitting room as I picked what I was going to wear next. Now I didn’t have to wonder, “Will my husband like this? Will he think it looks sexy on me? Does he like it in this color?” What a great short-cut.

After I tried on the second piece, I was slipping the garment down my legs and looked up at him to see what item he had lined up for me to try on next. Instead, I saw him leaning against the wall, fly open, cock in hand.

His cock was only semi-hard, but I could feel the heat pooling between my thighs…even as I heard the store associate approach with more clothes I didn’t ask for. She let me know she would leave it hanging on the door and walked away again. I’m glad she didn’t wait for a response because my mouth was full of a spongy, yet quickly hardening, shaft.

The store was going to close in 20 minutes and I still had so much to try on. Not only that, we had to keep carrying on a conversation or else I was sure the associates would become suspicious. So I withdrew his cock from my mouth and stood up straight, watching as he replaced it back in his pants and we continued the matter-of-fact conversation about what we should and shouldn’t buy.

Ten minutes of lingerie fitting passed, as well as some picture time, and he returned. I was finished with the selections I had made, and was in the process of pulling my leggings around my hips when my husband grabbed my hips and attempted to push into me. I let go of my leggings and placed my hands on the red, cushioned bench to fight the force of his thrusting behind me. I took a moment to reach behind me, and spread the folds of my sex so he could spear into me. And he did.

Do you know how difficult it is to pretend you are putting your boots on when a 6’3″ man in pushing into you from behind? It is terribly difficult. It is almost as difficult as pretending you are justifying the lingerie selections you made to throw of potential suspicion. Imagine trying to do both at the same time. I am talented. *giggle*

There was no way we could have finished in that fitting room. But the lighting, the huge mirrors, the pictures we took of our naughtiness all made me so wet and hot, it was hard to walk out of the store without communicating that something had gone on in that room. I distinctly remember that fitting room smelling like sex when we left it.

Now what I need is to have a similar experience with another woman…

Any volunteers? 

So, MF Fitting Room Sex? Check!
FF Fitting Room Sex, here I come.

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A great many women have a fantasy of being the center in a gang bang – an event where several people are fucking one person simultaneously or in a train. And though many have this on their sexual “bucket list,” very few actually go through with it (for a variety of reasons).

Those who do, find themselves facing a daunting task. Gang bangs are rarely spontaneous events, save for the occasional bang that happens in a swinger environment, and the amount of time and effort that goes into ensuring a successful, rewarding gang bang can be quite extensive if done correctly. It is therefore important that you understand all of the necessary measures you need to take to ensure your safety and to make it a good experience for all concerned. Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience.

This guide is intended to be a brief “how to” for the gang bang newbie. You could literally write a book on all of the specifics about how to plan and conduct a bang, but this is designed to provide you with a basic outline of issues and concepts you’ll need to consider as you give thought to planning (or participating in) your first.

Note that a gang bang can involve any combination of genders, though they are most often organized as several men fucking one woman. For the purposes of simplicity, and so I don’t have to expend massive amounts of time and effort ensuring every sentence is gender combination-neutral, this guide is written with a “female center being used by men” construct in mind.

Note that this is a fairly lengthy post, and is targeted toward those wanting to be the center in their first gang bang. The subject matter is such that this is necessary to ensure everything has been covered, however.

Terminology

So we’re all operating from a common framework, let’s define the terms we’ll be using.

Gang Bang: A gang bang is a sex session where four or more people fuck one person known as a center (or “guest of honor”). This is usually four+ males fucking a female, but it could involve any gender combination. It is also possible to have multiple guests of honor in a single gang bang event as well.

Center, or “Guest of Honor”: The center in a gang bang is the person who’s being fucked by the other participants (known as bangers).

Bangers: These are the people fucking the center(s).

Gang Bang Coordinator/Host: The Gang Bang Coordinator/Host is a person who sets up the bang and makes all of the logistical arrangements. S/he can be one and the same with any other positions (including the center). Generally, it’s a good idea to have someone other than the center do all of the logistical and preparatory work so she can concentrate on enjoying the experience, however.

Monitor: The Monitor is a non-participant whose role is to keep an eye on the center and the participants to ensure that all of the rules and safety precautions are being followed, largely for the personal safety of the center. The Monitor can be one and the same as the Coordinator.
Fluffers: People (usually women) who work to keep the participants in an aroused state when they’re not actively engaging with the center. In a GB where you have more than 5 men working with one center, the others will not be engaged with the center, and will usually require/desire some assistance in maintaining an erection. Though Viagra and other performance enhancers have alleviated the need for these in some cases, they’re still nice to have. They may also be responsible for dispensing lube, condoms, and other supplies during the event itself.

Is this something you want to do?

The decision to participate in a gang bang should not be taken lightly; you need to make sure you’re in the right mental state to get the most out of it. Gang bangs are typically high-energy, rougher, more athletically oriented sexual events, usually much more so than the standard single-partnered or threesome sex.

There are a variety of reasons why one might enjoy being in a gang bang, including, being the center of attention. It’s an awesome feeling to be lost in a sea of other people using you for their sexual pleasure.
The Challenge

Some people like to challenge themselves sexually and a gang bang is the ultimate challenge most people will ever face.

Exploring Your Slutty Side. Group sex is a big taboo in our society, so many people get a rush from indulging in a sex act that is seen as the ultimate in slutty acts.

If you’re overly concerned that people are going to think you’re a slut (if you consider that a negative), or if you’re not 100% emotionally confident with your decision to engage in a gang bang, you should hold off until those are no longer issues. You don’t want this to be a bad experience for you or the other participants.

If you’re unsure about whether or not a gang bang is something you wish to do, one option you may wish to consider is serving as a fluffer at someone else’s fuckfest. This will allow you to observe what happens through the actual bang itself and give you a feel for what it’s like. At that point you can make a decision about becoming the guest of honor in your own special event.

Your Significant Other

If you have a spouse, life partner, or significant other, you’re obviously going to need to take his/her feelings into consideration. This is NOT something you want to hide from a partner – the after effects and potential ramifications are far too great to do that for most people.

Some partners will not care (and perhaps might even encourage participation in a bang), but others may have some issues knowing or watching a partner be used by multiple other people; that’s just human nature. You need to discuss your desires with your partner and get him/her on board from the outset. It is essential that the two of you be secure in your relationship and arrive at a mutual understanding of feelings associated with the event.

In some cases, the partner may wish to participate, either as a banger or monitor. Assuming they’re comfortable with your participation in the gang bang, significant others make excellent monitors since they’re usually rather familiar with you emotionally and physically and are in a better position to notice problems in those areas.

If you are the partner of a potential guest of honor, be supportive, especially from an emotional standpoint. She’s liable to be very anxious about the event and you should help alleviate some of this by letting her know that you’re behind her and will do what you can to help her through it.

Informal vs. Large Scale

For many, their first gang bang starts out small, with perhaps 4 or 5 men participating with the center, quite often acquaintances of the center herself. In other cases, the bang is set up for a dozen or more men. Some porn stars have taken on hundreds of men in a single session.

As a general rule, if you’ve not experienced group sex before, it’s probably a good idea to start off small and see how you function in a group dynamic. If that works well for you, you can always do it again with a larger group. There’s always the chance that it may not be the experience you think it will be, and crashing with a smaller group is a lot less painful for all concerned.

By starting off with a smaller group, you can avail yourself of a room in your home or a hotel room, and don’t have to worry so much about things like fluffers and buying industrial size containers of lube. Large scale gang bangs may involve many people, larger spaces, larger quantities of supplies, and therefore, potentially, higher costs.

So your first decision will be how many men you wish to entertain. The specifics are likely to be determined by whether you elect to use people you know, recruit random participants, how the gang bang is constructed (as a stand alone event or part of a party or other gathering), etc. If you have a circle of friends from which you can draw a dozen participants, then you may elect to have a larger bang. One of the primary issues with a larger group of bangers is the potential for those not actively engaged in sex getting bored (and thus, the need for fluffers).

Once you’ve had your first experience, you may wish to move on to larger groups, or perhaps those involving alternative power differentials, role play (the school cheerleader is taken out back and “gang raped” by the school basketball team, for example), bondage scenarios and the like.

Covered vs. Uncovered (Bareback)/Testing

You’ll need to make a decision about whether or not to require condoms for penetration. The standard line issued by safer sex advocates is to always use condoms. The reality of a gang bang, however, is such that it is often more practical to disabuse everyone of having to worry about those. There are several reasons for this.

First, if the guys are rotating among orifices, you’re going to end up with condoms in your mouth. Some don’t mind that, but many people have an aversion to the taste of latex (or the materials used in non-latex condoms as well). Condoms also introduce more friction into the process and over a two-to-four hour GB, that’s going to wear out your naughty bits a bit more than bare skin, even with lube.

One of the reasons some women enjoy a gang bang is being filled with and/or drenched in semen – a bukkake experience as it were. Obviously, being filled with semen isn’t possible when using condoms (condoms can be removed prior to ejaculating on the center’s face or body, of course).

If you’re going to allow participants to fuck you without condoms, they will need to be tested and be prepared to provide results of those tests when they show up. You, too, will need to be tested and have your results available for inspection. Our bangers are required to present a negative HIV/STD test taken within 30 days of the bang itself. Keep in mind that even the best testing regimens cannot detect the presence of some diseases (for example, HPV in men), so everyone having negative tests does not preclude someone from actually having a contagious disease.

Risk is inherent in all sexual activities, so you’ll need to decide if that risk is low enough for you and the participants in the gang bang.

Using a Gang Bang Coordinator

Organizing a gang bang of any size can be a daunting task, especially if you have to get into renting space, finding fluffers (how many people know where to go to find those? They’re not in the Yellow Pages!), meeting prospective bangers, etc. So you are highly encouraged to hire/use the services of a Gang Bang Coordinator. This person will take care of all of the arrangements, to include finding and screening participants, securing space, setting up the room, and so forth. There’s a lot more to that than you might imagine, and it will allow you to insulate yourself from having to deal with screening potential bangers (which has several advantages).

Unless the Coordinator agrees to do it for free, then you should be prepared to compensate him/her as well. If the Coordinator is going to be a participant, then no compensation is warranted, however. There are people who specialize in organizing gang bangs (Art Hammer & The Florida Mandingos – Tampa, FL; The Crew – Northern Cali; Magnum BBCS – Dallas, TX; BlackBangedWhiteWives – Atl, GA)  though some will only do it if they get to video tape it and use it on a web site. (We have very specific requirements, including strict height/weight guidelines for any gang bangs that we organize, including cost unless we get to video tape the bang for our web sites).

YOU OBVIOUSLY WANT TO GET REFERENCES FROM ANYONE CLAIMING TO BE A GANG BANG ORGANIZER. THIS IS NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT TO TRUST JUST ANYONE WITH.

The Coordinator should discuss with the center the kind of “scene” or power dynamic she wishes to create for her gang bang. For some they may simply wish to be fucked and not involve a power disparity. For others, they may wish to be “treated like a whore,” objectified, etc. It is the Coordinator’s responsibility to create that scene for her (through counseling the bangers, setting the music mood, etc.).

Another role of the Coordinator is to screen potential bangers. This includes verifying test results, as well as meeting each of them prior to the bang to ensure they’re suitable for the event and approving or rejecting them (I call it “screening for assholishness”). If you have any specific requirements for the men you’ll be fucking (race, sizes, marital status, etc.), you should discuss those prior to the beginning of the recruitment and include those in any recruitment announcements you publish.

Finding a Hosting Site

Where you elect to host will depend on how many people are going to be playing. If you just have 4 or 5 guys and the center, then a hotel room would usually suffice quite well. If you’ve got the center, 15 men, two fluffers, a monitor, and perhaps more, though, you’re going to need a little bigger room.

Obviously, if you know someone who has a house and they’ll allow you to use it, then so much the better. Alternatively, you may need to rent some space. If you know someone in the local BDSM community, someone who has a dungeon, a swinger’s club, or some other place used for group sex activities, then those should be considered. If you’re going to rent space, be sure you let the space owner know what’s going to be happening and is comfortable with that.

The hosting site needs to have a bathroom and a shower at a minimum. When you get done, you’ll likely be covered in fuck funk – cum, sweat, saliva, lube, urine, etc. You’ll want to wash it off before you head home. Some of the bangers may want to wash up as well. Work with the hosting site to ensure there are sufficient numbers of towels (or have everyone bring their own). If you’re in a hotel, you can request extra towels from the housekeeping department (though they may wonder why you need an extra ten sets of bath towels!).

Finding Bangers

This will be your biggest challenge, despite the huge number of guys you see claiming they’d be right there for a gang bang. You’ll need to decide if you want to use people you know or recruit random participants. Generally, allowing random participants will increase your ability to get a sufficient number of bangers, especially if you’re looking for a larger number.

There are two things to keep in mind when recruiting participants. First off, many won’t show, even if they say they will. Second, some who do show won’t be able to perform (get an erection). That’s not any fault of their own, but rather a function of anxiety from being naked and having to engage in sex in front of other people. It happens, so you need to take that into consideration. Therefore, if you want to be banged by 10 people, you should consider recruiting at least 25 or more to attend.

There are several ways you can recruit participants:

Use swing sites like SDC or FetLife kink/fetish boards to announce the bang and recruit there. If you’ll be attending a lifestyle or fetish convention (or similar event), you might be able to recruit participants there.

Use Yahoo Groups: If you’re aware of local yahoo groups or sex  boards, you can use those.

Use Craigslist: The W4MM Section is a good place to start.
If you’re a member of a swing club, they may allow you to organize a gang bang in house and you’d have a built-in source of participants.

Most people prefer to use participants they know, largely because of the comfort factor. If you know everyone, there’s less awkwardness involved and you can be a little more confident that everyone will follow the rules. The downside to using people you know, especially for those who’re just experimenting, is that you may not wish for your acquaintances to know you’re being gang fucked.

Using randoms will provide you with a much larger pool of potential participants and therefore make it easier to recruit sufficient numbers. The down side to this, of course, is that you won’t know anything about these folks. That’s why it is a good idea for the Coordinator (see below) to meet with all potential participants prior to the actual gang bang itself. S/he can talk to them and rule out anyone who seems like they might not be a good fit.

Your recruiting announcement should include information about the extent of play (who’s available, what penetrations are allowed, etc.); the rules, time, date, and expected duration; and any other pertinent information (i.e., location, availability of snacks, etc.).

You’ll also want to protect your identity to prevent any of the idiots that might infiltrate the process from harassing you. Use a special e-mail address (create one in GMail if you don’t have one already), and use it to coordinate everything if you don’t have a Coordinator working for you (the Coordinator will protect your identity if s/he is doing the recruiting). You should use a pseudonym throughout the process to prevent disclosure of your true identity (accidentally or intentionally).

Charging Participants

You’ll need to decide whether or not to charge participants. Again, small groups will fare better – everyone can bring drinks and snacks if they like. For larger groups, you may wish to set up a table and have the Coordinator take care of providing snacks and drinks for everyone. This will cost money. If you plan to use fluffers and/or a DJ, they should be compensated in some way, and if you’re renting a space you’ll have that to figure in as well.

The best way to figure out whether or not, and how much to charge is to calculate your costs (space rental, snacks/drinks, fluffers, DJ, security guy and clean up crew(s) if you use them, etc.), and divide it by the number of guys you’ll be playing with. $25 – $30 is a reasonable price for someone to pay to participate in a gang bang, in my opinion, if you have free space available. If you set the rate too high, you’ll discourage people from participating.

Make sure you word the requirement for payments such that it indicates the fees are covering costs. Charging a fee by the center/guest of honor to participate in the gang bang itself could be considered prostitution in many jurisdictions. Therefore if you decide to charge participants, it is ALWAYS advisable to have a coordinator.

Logistics

The actual logistics behind setting up a gang bang are just as important as finding people to play. Examples of things you need to consider include:

Drinks & Snacks: Make sure there’s a good supply of non-alcoholic drinks, including water and sport drinks (Gatorade). Everyone will need to stay hydrated during the event.

Music & Ambiance: Have a good selection of music available, consistent with the nature of the gang bang. For example, if it’s a “dirty whore” kind of bang, raunchy music might be appropriate. If you’re of a mindset to do it, you may wish to use the services of a DJ and allow him/her to select appropriate music (The DJ should be compensated for his/her time). You can also modify any other influence on the ambiance as well (lighting, temperature, candles, etc.)

Supplies: You’ll need lube, condoms of various sizes, dental dams, and other safe sex supplies. These need to be set up on a table near the fuck space, or they can be managed and handed out by the fluffers if you’re using them.

Fluffers: If you’re going to have more than 4 or 5 bangers, it’s a good idea to have a fluffer or two to keep those not actively participating in the sex aroused. You can recruit these on Craigslist, through yahoo or the fetish/kink boards. Fluffers should be compensated for their time as well.

Towels and other sanitary items: People at a gang bang are going to work up a sweat, so you need to ensure that sufficient towels are available for everyone, as well as other essential sanitary supplies consistent with the nature of the participants and the activities planned for the bang.

The Coordinator should have everything set up an hour or so before guests begin arriving, and there should be some provision for recovering and cleaning up after the gang bang is over. If you’re using someone else’s space (including a hotel room), please clean it up before you depart. Leaving used condoms lying around and cum stains all over the place is just rude and nasty. You might also consider hiring someone to clean up the fuck space once the gang bang is over, depending upon your budget.

Preparing the Fuck Space

If you’re having a small bang and will be using the bed and/or basic furniture that is in a hotel room or the bedroom of a house, then very little space preparation might be required. If you’re having a larger bang, though, you’ll need to ensure appropriate padding, floor coverings, furniture, and other items are in place to support the fucking of one person. If you have access to sex furniture, this makes a great addition to the event.

Disposable plastic sheeting is a good idea to put down on the floor at a minimum. You can also put it under sheets on a bed to help protect mattresses from the deluge of cum. If you’re going to be allowing pee play, you should consider using a small kiddie pool to catch everything.

The Monitor: Having Someone Watch for Your Safety

One thing you absolutely must have is someone to monitor your safety and to ensure the rules are followed as the gang bang progresses. This is especially true if you’re requiring condoms or if there are specific orifices or activities that are expressly off limits. When you’re being fucked by three men, you won’t have any idea whether the guy in your ass has a condom on his cock or not!

The Monitor also needs to ensure you’re physically doing well, and stopping the action if things appear to be getting out of hand. You should schedule a break for hydration if it’s going to be a long bang; the monitor should keep track of the time and announce breaks as appropriate.

The Monitor should also keep an eye out for physical safety conditions, such as the accumulation of semen and other fluids on the floor that might lead to someone slipping and falling. Imagine how embarrassing it would be to have to go to the emergency room and explain that you’d slipped on cum during a gang bang and busted your head!

The Monitor must be a non-participant, though you can elect to switch people out to act as monitors throughout the event. Just be sure you trust anyone you elect to act as a monitor.

Prior to the beginning of the gang bang, talk to the monitor(s) and agree on safe words and visible signals you can use to indicate that a stop is needed. You need to have visible signals (such as a raised hand or fist) in addition to safe words since it’ll be impossible to utter a safe word when you have a cock buried in your throat!

Mental Preparations

One assumes, if you’re organizing a gang bang, that you’re prepared for the onslaught of cock. In my opinion, you should have at least been involved in a threesome with two men prior to attempting a gang bang, just to give you some experience managing more than one cock at a time. In fact I personally will not arrange a gang bang for any woman who has not had at least 3 men at the same time! At first blush it might not sound like that big of deal, but having multiple cocks penetrate you simultaneously is not as easy and logistically straightforward as it might sound.

It’s not uncommon to have first time jitters, especially if this is the first time you’ll be engaging strangers or people you’re not already comfortable with. Once you get started sucking cock, though, things will begin to flow normally – you’ll get into automatic mode where you’re knowing how to fuck will take over. Some women will even go through a meditation or other ritual prior to engaging in the bang to calm their nerves.

Once you get started, just focus on doing what you can do and enjoying the feeling of being used as a fuck toy. You’re going to be surprised at the new, unique sensations you encounter as all of these men penetrate you and interact with your body. You might consider being blindfolded – this allows you to enjoy the sensations of being fucked and allows the men to see you more as an object rather than a human being (if that’s a portion of what you’re aiming for).

It’s important to note that, if at any time, you get cold feet and decide that you can’t go through with it or need to stop, it is perfectly acceptable to back out. Any kind of sex play should be wholly consensual and you shouldn’t feel goaded into the gang bang simply because all of these people are here. They will understand. This is why you MUST ALWAYS have a monitor because even in a gang bang setting, NO ALWAYS MEANS NO, unless you have a pre-determined safe word which meansNO!

Physical Preparations

Stretch. You’ll be bent into positions you’ve likely never been in before so everyone can reach a hole. It will be an athletic performance, and just as any other athlete does prior to the game, they stretch their muscles to prevent cramps and injuries.

You’ll want to avail yourself of an enema to clean out your rectum if you’re going to be allowing anal penetration (and probably even if you don’t, just because you’ll be pushing at times and may not be able to control your rectum if things get wild). This needs to be done about an hour or so before the sex will begin.

You’ll also want to avoid any serious eating for a couple of hours before the bang as well, for two reasons. First, within a half hour or so of eating your lower digestive system will move material down into your rectum to be discharged – not good especially if you’re going to be allowing anal penetration. Second, you don’t want a full stomach if you’re going to have cocks entering your throat (even if you’re accustomed to being throat fucked), especially if you’re going to be in any position where your head is lower than your abdomen, for obvious reasons.

You may eat some crackers (or other benign material) and drink water prior to the event, however, to keep your stomach stable. This is especially important if you’re going to be swallowing semen over the course of the gang bang. Swallowing a lot of semen on an empty stomach can give you nausea, possibly interrupting the proceedings.

Setting/Enforcing Rules

Either you or your Monitor will need to explain the rules of engagement to the participants. You’ll need to let them know what holes are available for penetration, rules for covers, physical activity limits. Things to outline include:

Extent of play and which orifices are available. Who all can be penetrated (including the fluffers?), which holes are available on the players, etc.
Which holes, if any, condoms are mandatory for.
Can they call you names (whore, slut, bitch, cunt, etc.)?
Can they fuck your face/throat or will you make all the movements when giving head?
Is ass-to-mouth oral sex permitted? (Risk of stomach upset)
Is ass to vaginal sex permitted? (Risk of UTI)
Are watersports permitted?
Can they slap you anywhere (ass, boobs, face)?
Can they spit on you anywhere (including your face)?
Can they grab your hair and pull it, use it to control you, etc.
Where the bangers are allowed to cum.
Explain what the safe words and signals are and expected reactions to them.
Explain any time constraints, break plans, etc.
Use of cell phones, still/video cameras: Unless you don’t mind your gang bang showing up on the Internet, I would highly encourage you to prohibit the use of cell phones and cameras in the fuck space. Make everyone check them at the door. If you want the event recorded for your own use, have someone you trust operate the camera(s).

And though a bit of wine might loosen everyone up, you’ll want to avoid heavy alcohol consumption, largely to prevent things from getting out of hand, especially if you use random guys. Alcohol will also increase the chances of dehydration.

You may wish to write out the extent of play and list all of the performance rules and send them out to the bangers a few days or so before the gang bang to ensure they arrive familiar with them.

Getting Things Started

Once you’ve gotten everyone assembled in the same room and are ready to begin, it’s a good idea to once again quickly familiarize everyone with the rules and safe words/signs, introduce the fluffers to everyone, and introduce the center.

There are any number of ways you can begin, but perhaps the most common is for the center to start by blowing and handjobbing the guys as they stand around her. The center can select a position she wants to be in and then the bangers can take up positions around her in order to begin fucking her. Each guy can fuck for 5-10 minutes (no marathon guys permitted in a gang bang), or until he cums, whichever is shorter, and then move to another hole or move out of the way to allow the next guy to step in.

Over the course of the next several minutes or hours, the center can move to different furniture, move into different positions, and/or switch around as she sees fit, with the bangers following her lead. The gang bang continues until the center is ready to stop, the monitor stops the action due to concerns for the center, the time is up if a time limit was established, or the center outlasts all of the bangers.

You might consider some kind of game or competition to determine who gets first crack at fucking the center.

If a significant other is present and participating as a banger, s/he should be the last person to engage the center. This will help re-establish their connection at the conclusion of the bang, something that may be critical to ensuring the emotions of both are drawn back together.

Aftercare

Many women underestimate the impact that a gang bang will have on them, physically and emotionally. When it’s over, spend some time in the shower washing yourself and decompressing (or reveling in what you’ve just accomplished). Calm down and regain your composure before you go back out to talk to everyone or depart. You may wish to have someone drive you home.

You’ll likely relive parts of the gang bang over and over again, that night and for the following few days. Hopefully, the experience will be a positive one for you – you’re likely to want to do another one, and soon.

It’s not uncommon for a little bit of sexual shame to creep in afterward, either. You must come away with the understanding that there’s nothing wrong with engaging in a gang bang or any other group sex event if everyone who was there was a willing, consensual participant.

If you have a significant other, be sure and reconnect with them after the event is over, either via phone if they’re not present or perhaps through a date where the two of you can be alone, followed up by sex between just the two of you. When you’re comfortable with it, discuss the event, your feelings, and any thoughts you have about what you experienced.

Advice for the Bangers

You’ll be standing around with several other men, naked, with their cocks out. The center is probably going to want two cocks in her mouth or perhaps even in one of her other orifices at the same time. That means your cock will be in contact with someone else’s. If you’re homophobic or have an aversion to these kinds of things, you’re likely to have some issues. If you believe this to be the case, you should probably give second thoughts to volunteering to participate in a gang bang. A gang bang is not the place for that kind of drama.

Performance anxiety can be an issue for some guys as well. This is not uncommon at all, so be prepared for it. You may wish to avail yourself of Viagra or similar drugs to last a bit longer. If you need to step back and just watch for a few minutes, that’s perfectly fine. And, of course, if there are fluffers there, they can usually provide you with some assistance.

You’ll need to get tested. If you don’t wish to have your doctor know about this, you can have tests done at local Planned Parenthood or public health facilities. Keep in mind that some test results may take several days to arrive, so get tested well in advance (or in accordance with any rules the Coordinator or Center has provided you).

Show up on time, be prepared to have fun and respect the rules the center sets – that’s the most critical thing you can do. Finally, If you’re going to be unable to make the bang once you’ve indicated that you’ll be there, notify the Coordinator, though.

Once the bang is over, be supportive of the center and not critical or negative. If you have a criticism about the way things were run or something that occurred during the event itself, get with the Coordinator shortly after it is over and discuss your concerns. Don’t leave everyone with a big pile of negative energy!

Advice for the Monitor

Your role is not one of participant – you should not be one of the cocks penetrating the center. If desired, arrange to swap out with another participant if you wish to play. You can’t monitor and fuck at the same time!

The safety of the center is your ultimate priority. Discuss the rules and safety procedures with her prior to the beginning of the GB. Ask her what her safewords are, what alternate signs she wishes to use, and if she has any physical limitations that you need to take into account.

Agree on a time frame for breaks if it is to be an extended event. Don’t get lost in watching what’s going on, either. It’ll be quite a sight, but you need to maintain focus on her safety.

Summary

Being gang banged can be an intense, incredible, and empowering experience if it is conducted and carried out in a well-organized manner, and if you’re in the right place mentally to do it. One of the primary hurdles most people face in planning for one is understanding all of the logistics involved in setting one up and carrying it out. Hopefully, this guide will be of some assistance in that endeavor. The most important thing to keep in mind is that it should be fun for all concerned, and proper planning can help make that happen.

Happy Banging!!!

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Yesterday went so well, it make all the week’s toils worth it. We took our new car for a long trip with all the kids in tow. It felt so good to not have to worry about breaking down. Those of you that have ever had car issues can probably relate. We just had a great family day and my heart was full. Last night was one of the funnest nights I have had in a while at Eyz Wide Shut. The place was packed by 11pm. Last night we headed out in very good spirits and we didn’t get home till after 3:30am. Time seemed to go really fast on the club side. We chatted with everyone we could and we almost headed over to the lodging an hour early. I had a feeling that we should wait and my hunch turned out to be exactly what we needed.

When we finally did go to the lodging side we were accompanied by two couples. We had a little bit of a problem finding a room and we had one but they were already in Lover’s lane by that time. As soon as we walked in the door there were the couples already naked and ready to play. The girls were laying next to each other on the couches with the guys on either side. Miguel and I picked a spot next to them. I was wearing a black corset top and some jeans. I ended up not even taking off the corset but I removed everything else. Miguel stripped down completely like the other couples so they were all in the buff. We were right in the doorway of the entrance to these two common rooms. Every time a new couple (or couples) walked in one of the guys would say “Oh by the way, there might be naked people in here.” It was pretty comical.

I just happened to have two clitoral toys with me, so I got to work immediately in fishing them out of my bag to put them to work. First I had my new Mia, and I worked that on the “new” couple. This is a couple we had talked to for a few Saturdays and we shared an interest in LELO toys. I knew she might like the Mia, since she was pretty impressed with the Liv her husband bought her. This Mia is one from the re-designed line and it’s vibrations are pretty impressive. Shaped like a lipstick, it is pretty and a very effective clitoral vibe. This girl was so cute with a sexy curvy shape on her small frame. Her breasts were so full and beautiful I started there and played with them a bit, and then I went to work on her clit. She was very “neutral” tasting just like the girl from the other couple. I licked and sucked her clit and I tried to work her clit manually, but my nails do not allow for rough play. I got the Mia out and made it do all the hard work. After jacking her clit for a few minutes I guided her hand over to the toy and she took over.

Moving down the line, to the other girl who I knew needed a bit of power. I brought out the Life by Leaf for her. I am pretty familiar with this sexy bitch and I know she likes it rough. I didn’t have to worry about hurting her. I licked and sucked her clit, then I put the Life on full blast and applied steady pressure on her clit. About 30 seconds after I applied the Life to her clit she squirted all over. It shot about 3 feet out and drenched the floor. I had about a five second warning when she said, “I’m gonna squirt!” It was pretty cool to watch! It would have sucked to be showered by it though. Only when I heard chuckles all around us did I realize what an audience we had. She wanted to do it again with the Life on her clit but I was pretty ready for some action myself so I guided her hand over to the toy and moved over to Miguel.

Scenes like this make me so glad we chose this lifestyle. I got fucked every which way, somehow we fucked on both sides of these two couples. Hands were outstretched and there was some cross groping going on making the sex so much hotter. As if seeing the couple next to you was not enough to turn us on, reaching out and stroking them made it feel real, and was such a fucking turn on. I was on my hands and knees getting it from behind with a great view of what the couple next to us was doing. Miguel was fucking me so hard and putting so much pressure on my ass, it was hard to fall over but I did pretty good staying up. Then Miguel would have me flip over so he could fuck me missionary style. He tried to get me to go on top, but I protested and he finished off soon after. My thighs were seriously wasted from dancing for like 4 hours with hardly any breaks. We were both completely spent afterwards.We ran into more friends on the way out, with an invitation to play some more. We just could though, I needed food!

The ride home was a big blur of lights and Taco Bell. We walked in the door to find a sick child with my Mom and it’s back to reality.

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Taking one for the team is an expression in the swinger lifestyle used for when one partner wants to hook up with a person and the other is left to hook up with their, less-desirable counterpart. But is there really such a thing as taking one for the team? If you really are concerned about your partner’s happiness why not take a sacrifice fly every now and then. I know we all say that we won’t take one for the team….. but come on !! Haven’t you just once??
In the world of swinging, we have found that it’s hard to find equally balanced couples and single females. Being an interracial swinger couple it’s really hard to find the right couple to play with. So what do you do when your partner has the hots for one half of a couple and the other half is not that attractive? Or what do you do when the “unattractive” part of the couple has great energy, knows how to party and has a great personality. Is that taking on for the team?
I can recall many nights when we’ve had a Caramel Craze Swinger Party or attended someone else’s party. And we’ve met couples where one half of the couple was not attractive, only to leave the party thinking what a great guy or lady that was, and maybe we should have played with them. But would we play with them outside of the party or the club? Probably not……Let me shoot this scenario at you. If you saw a couple on Kasidie.com (or your site of choice) and one of you had the itch for one half of the couple would you meet them for a play date? Now take that same couple and let’s say that you were at a party/club… it’s late ……and you’ve been drinking and dancing and mingling … would you consider it?
Well I’m not going to lie, I’ve taken one for the team! And Mrs. Caramel Craze will probably tell you that she has as well. It’s been many nights when we’ve had a little too much to drink that one of us has played with the less desirable half of a couple……and it probably won’t be the last. If any of you have played in a swinger orgy room, then you probably have made that sacrifice fly.
Here is some feedback from Swingers
“I consider taking one for the team to also mean a lousy lay, not just in the looks department. As I stated before, what looked to first be the happenings of a bad decision turned out to be a great night of sex, and this has happened on several occasions and from both sides!

Funny how many people equate slim or “fit” people to being good in bed.”
“Hell, as long as the Mrs. is happy I’m fine almost all of the time. We have the same taste in women and like I told her from the beginning, “if the guy doesn’t do it for you, nobody’s twisting your arm.” A major part of our LS relationship is in seeing her happy and turned on. Seeing her turned on always turns me on and it is unusual to find a couple with an attractive guy and an unattractive woman. For us, it usually comes down to the troll factor. (and that can be within his looks or personality.)”
“We never take on for the team…..under any circumstances! That’s not what the Lifestyle is about.”

So next time your encountered with this situation……..ask yourself……is this really taking one for the team?

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Remember when you were first approached about the Lifestyle & Swinging altogether? How did you react that first time? Were you scared? Excited? Nervous? Jealous? Envious? Etc… Well I think I was all of the above and more when I was first introduced and told about the Lifestyle and Swinging.

I had never heard of swingers still being active and around since 70’s and never thought twice about what if or if it was something that was still a viable concept and actual Lifestyle that was still being lived to this day! I was just thinking about this guy I am dating, (we will call him Ken), and what his impression of me when we first met. I told Ken right away I was in the lifestyle. And until then had never thought of wanting to leave it for any reason.

I have noticed that some people are intimidated by the whole idea though. We must be very careful when we approach a Vanilla about the lifestyle since they are unfamiliar they will be quickly on the defensive and that is not what you want.

As I look back to my first introduction to the Lifestyle, I started to worry that Ken might have a bad impression of me or think I am a Slut, or that I don’t practice safe sex, which is far from the truth especially in the Lifestyle. I believe that LS people are actually safer than the average Joe about sex and are also much more open to talking about it with others. How much does Ken really know about the lifestyle and Swinging? Should I have discussed this subject with him more before coming forward and being honest about myself and my position? What kind of person does Ken see me as? What does he think I do at parties when I go alone or before we started dating? Is he going to be judgmental and never open up the possibility?

So I decided to take a step back, back to the beginning. To a time when a guy, we will call Ray, I was dating first told me about the lifestyle. What was my reaction? How did I feel at that point? Why did Ray want to do this without me? How was I going to adjust to the fact of sharing my man with another female and not getting jealous? At first, Ray wanted to try it out with a few friends and was NOT going to invite me to join the club so to speak. Well this started to really bother me. So I started to wonder and think… and think… and think some more… Then it hit me! OMG what is this man doing at these crazy wild sex parties and why doesn’t he want me to come and experience any of this fun!?!?!? Do I seem like a prude? Thought I was pretty good at this sex thing and have never had any complaints. So what was the BIG secret?? LOL, I can see some of you grinning at the recollection of this. Are you starting to think back on your first impression before you knew more about it too?

Now I knew I was a very sexual woman before I got into the lifestyle. But the terrifying thought that I would HAVE to engage in sex with EVERY man there, whether I was attracted to them or not, because it is just one huge orgy and that is what was done! There was no way I am going for that!

So I started to ask Ray questions. Wanting more info on the party he went to. The more he told me the details about what really happened, and the fact that it was NOT one HUGE orgy as I previously thought, the more and more excited, turned on, and curious I became. Now granted Ray totally had me at his mercy, and knew how much I enjoyed the sex we had. We would try new things, or go on and on for hours. But this added a spark or spice to the realm of what you dream about or imagine in your thoughts when sitting home, alone, horny, playing with yourself and having all the fantasies in your head go wild and ready to explode!

As he described the events, like everyone gathers around for a big party early. The kids are there for the early party, then at 9pm, the kids were all sent into the house and the adults continued their party in the barn. Now at this point I am expecting everyone to strip and get naked and start going at it! Isn’t that the whole point?? But that was not the case after all. They continued to stand around and drink, talk, dance and BS for several more hours. Now please be aware, this is a party in the country, where a bunch of folks that grew up together their whole lives, got married and NOW all have sex together! I was bewildered a bit because I could remember many boys I grew up with and the thought of ever having sex with them was totally out of the question! LOL

He continued with the story, telling me how people would go off to find a place in the barn to play alone and only took one or two people with them. He said that some would ask a woman if she wanted to join and if she said no it was totally fine. But it never happened. Mostly they already knew whom they were going to play with that person ahead of time. WOW! I was very aroused at this point thinking of some hot, young cowboy coming up to me and asking me to go roll in the hay with him! I would be in heaven! In addition, the fact that you didn’t have to go and everyone was ok with that was very cool too!! No peer pressure to perform or act. Totally relaxed!

He told me it was very tasteful and respectful and that the whole concept of swinging was centered on the woman getting hers and having the best time she could have. Now this is starting to sound more like it! I was imagining four hunky young, cowboys at this point coming to sweep me off my feet and have their way with me as others gathered around to watch. And I loved every moment of it! Hehehe back to reality now…..

The men would also have the option to play with another female if the wife approved after she was satisfied and they had agreed on it before in their rules. Hmm …. Rules? We have to set rules too?? This started to sound like heaven until I heard I had to follow a bunch of rules! I can’t remember everyone’s rules! What if I forget and screw something up?? This part made me nervous. I am so screwed…..(Too, be continued…)

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Swinging has been around for decades, but lately there has been an influx of newbies hitting the swinger clubs. But do they know anything about swinger etiquette?  So.......all of you newbies  who  choose to participate need to know the basic fundamental rules for swinger club etiquette. Knowing swinger club etiquette can increase your chances of having a good time at swinger clubs.  It will also help in  keeping down confusion.

1. Always be friendly and courteous to those in the swingers club that you are visiting; especially those that you are interesting in playing with.

2. Be sure to go over all of the rules of the establishment. If you don't see the rules..ask to see them!

3. Don't go overboard on alcohol!  You don't want the  label of being a drunk and unruly couple.

4. If you feel like you're being pressured into a situation (Hooking up with a couple) and you do not want to proceed in the arrangement, decline in  a respectful and kind manner.

5. Always use protection!  Always bring your own protection! Even though most clubs have condoms readily available, you should bring your own.    Guys..... Keep latex free condoms in your stash.  Some women are allergic to latex, you don't want to miss out on a dime-piece because you didn't come prepared.

6.Go over your rules before you visit a swingers club. If you make  rules.....don't break them on your first trip to a club. That's a recipe for DRAMA!.  And remember.....your rules are your rules!  There are plenty people willing to help you break them...so if you break YOUR rules, that's on you  and no one else.

7. Keep your hands to yourself! Unless there is an invitation to......Just because it's a swingers club doesn't mean that you can go around grabbing everyone.  So wait until you are invited!

Every swinger's club or event may have different rules, these are just a few pointers for newbies to make your club experience better.

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