What is a Cuckold?

The definition of a Cuckold is –  a man whose wife has committed adultery, often regarded as an object of scorn.  In the swinger lifestyle, a cuckold can also mean a male fetishist who gains sexual gratification from his partner having intercourse with other people. The male is considered the Cuckold, and the female is referred to as the cuckoldress.

In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The Cuckold fetish has always been around in the freaky land, but it has grown increasingly popular in the Swinglifestyle.  There are different variations to cuckolding as it pertains to the swinger lifestyle.

One of the more increasingly popular Cuckold activities as of late has involved BBC.  The cuckoldress often times seek out young black bulls (men) to satisfy them in a way that their male cannot. Often time the Cuckold is regulated to filming, taking photos or cleaning detail. Yes…. cleaning detail, this could be with a towel or orally.  Cuckolds are often appointed to find the males for the Cuckoldress, arrange the place for the meeting.  BBC gangbangs are a haven for cuckolding!

Another variant of cuckolding is the female acting as the dominant partner while the male acts as the submissive partner. While this part of Cuckolding may not involve any outside partners it involves sheer Masochism.  The males are sometimes forced to wear dresses, panties, and cock restrictors. This is the most popular form of Cuckolding. This can also be associated to BDSM-although I’m not that familiar with BDSM, the people that I’ve spoken with have enlightened that the males in BDSM are not regulated to the humiliation of Cuckolding.

This is the first part of my series on Erotic humiliation, and I hope that you will join me in my research to find out more about the subcultures in the swinger lifestyle.

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